Commitment

I am like my mom in a lot of ways. I have her good looks, her sarcasm, her sense of humor, and her great laugh. I also have similar health problems and mental road blocks.

One such block we share is commitment. Not the relationship type, she's been married for almost 24 years and I have been in a long standing relationship and am engaged. We just can't commit to anything... that won't affect us in the long run.

Here are some examples of things we can't commit to:

Cleaning
Shopping (grocery or clothes/etc)
Dr/Dentist/Hair appointments
Diets
Dinner plans


I guess it's not the best thing. Things like laundry and dishes get out of control very quickly and trash can accumulate if all you do is grab McDonalds.

But I also like to think that is what makes us fun. We cant plan but we sure as hell are spontaneous. And when we want to go, we want to go NOW because if we wait around for you to shower and comb your hair... it's no longer spontaneity, but a plan.

And we can't commit.

If you want a girl who will cook and clean and keep house smooth as clockwork, you're in the wrong place.

If you want a girl who will always go out on Tuesdays and eat dinner and have a few drinks... you're talking to the wrong girl.

If you want a girl who will randomly do things... you found her.